By Charlene
Bielema and Jason Nevel
CLINTON
— Adorned with white bows and bells, a sign outside of the Unitarian
Universalist Fellowship on Wednesday had a message of congratulations
for the couple who were married there that afternoon.
That
couple is Ephraim and Joel Stiever-Rivera from Panama City, Fla., who
drove to Clinton to be married, a decision they made on the heels of
the Iowa Supreme Court decision that legalized gay marriage in Iowa.

They are not alone.
A check of records at the Clinton County Recorder's Office on
Wednesday
shows that several gay couples have been married in Clinton County
since the Iowa Supreme Court voted unanimously to legalize same-sex
marriage in April. That’s when justices upheld a lower-court ruling
that rejected a state law restricting marriage to a union between a man
and woman. In their report, the court wrote that Iowa lawmakers have
“excluded a historically disfavored class of persons from a supremely
important civil institution without a constitutionally sufficient
justification.”
Since the ruling, six gay couples, including
Ephraim and Joel, have come to Clinton to be married. However, none of
the other couples have traveled farther to tie the knot than the two
newlyweds. Christina Jarosch and Sandra Kurt traveled from Akron, Ohio,
but the rest were either in state or from Illinois.
The
Clinton County Recorder's Office, which collects and stores marriage
license information, files paperwork for gay couples the same as it
would for heterosexual couples. The information only becomes part of
the public record after everything is official.
The decision made Iowa the third state to allow same-sex
marriage,
joining Massachusetts and Connecticut.
Now, there are five states that allow gay marriage. For six
months last
year, California’s high court allowed gay marriage before voters banned
it in November.
In order for the decision to be reversed in
Iowa, there would have to be a constitutional amendment, which wouldn't
make it onto the ballot until 2012 at the earliest.
Other
states have considered the measure but could never reach an agreement.
In Illinois, lawmakers advanced legislation out of a committee that
would have legalized civil unions but the proposal never reached the
House floor for a full vote.
As for Ephraim and Joel, they're just happy they can finally be
together.
Joel,
an occupational therapist, and Ephraim, a Sprint employee, actually
have been together for nine years, and were legally married on the day
marking their ninth anniversary. The reason they chose Clinton was
based on the presence of the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, a
denomination that Joel says the couple have belonged to for a very long
time.
Ephraim says it was Joel who planned the wedding, making the
decision
soon after Iowa legalized gay marriage.
The
Rev. Ruby Nancy of Rock Island, Ill., officiated at the Stiever-Rivera
wedding, but she has performed several of them as well as many
commitment ceremonies over the years. Because the local congregation is
without a pastor, she said she was contacted to lead the ceremony. She
also created a wedding format targeted to and approved by the couple.
In
it, she said the couple are taking their love to the world and that
they are giving their hands and hearts to each other as a sanctuary of
peace.
She also blessed their rings before proclaiming them husbands.
After the ceremony, the two proceeded to a reception behind the
church.
“We are excited we could get married,” Joel said.
Published: June
11, 2009 11:23 am in the
Clinton Herald, Clinton, Iowa